Reason that left Behind....

You know when we are still young..still a child...old folks always use scary punishment-to get or just scary story to make sure we will behave..and some of it really ridiculous..erm example if you sing a song while you are cooking (for a lady) you will never got married...then you know when it late in the evening just before the night come in the sky will turn into a very beautiful orange color..last time when i was a kid the old folks said that we must not be in the orange light,if not you will die..I still remember when I was a kid we like running home histerically when the sky turn into orange..then when you are eating, don't change the place..afterwords you will marry a number of wives depend on how many time you change the place (for a guy) and for a lady sure you will not marry for the rest of your life..this one quite good..at least for the guy..haha..

Actually all this thing is a totally bullshit..there are a lot of reason why the old folks create all this story..you can't sing while you cooking because of you may burn your cookings,for the kids you must be home before night so that such story of the orange sky exist and it really works as we all running home before the light touch us..but actually that is one of the beauty of mother nature..the sunset..hahaha..and really all this thing got a good reason behind it..but when we are already at the age when we can think..we don't need this kind of story..we need the reason..

Especially in malay-muslim community, there are a lot of think that I really don't understand..a lot of thing we can't do..but the folks only talk about the punishment not the reason..for an example..commiting adultery..usually we only know the punishment..ask all the malay-muslim..they will know..for those who are still single will be cane and those who are married will be thrown rocks to them..actually there are more..but the punishment is not practised in Malaysia..in Malaysia you just pay the fine..you got a lot of money..don't have to worry in commiting adultery or even comitting crimes..hahaha..

Anyway we know the punishment but we lack of idea why we can't do the thing..all this punishment thing will work for children or people who think like one..so what i'm trying to say..for our level who are more secular in thinking..we need the REASON...i'll repeat..REASON..
usually i will get a lot of mail that say you can't do this,can't do that and they did't state the reason..they just state the punishment...so it kind of annoying as i think...why of this kind of thing happen in our community..although I know the reason but still i'm really annoyed with this kind of thing..

What i'm tried to implemented here is that we must learn by the reason so that we know why we can't commit all of this wrong doings..for an example..why you can't commit adultery??a lot of explanation..one of the most reason that I like is that to take care or actually save the lady..a lot of guys just know how to fuck..if by marriage it is already like a contract so the guy have to be responsible..but if just a couple when you fucking each other and you accidentally slip...usually the lady will have to bear the children by herself..the guy will be gone..I have a few friends who happen to be like that..one of the stupid thing is that the friends fuck with Mat Rempit..hahaha..why don't you fuck with any Bank CEO whatsoever because at least they have a lot of money..the Mat Rempit..you not only being fucked but sometime you even have to pay for his fucking meals..and they don't even have the money to buy the condom..

but anyway my friend is still alive and the baby is healthy but seriously the guy is missing..i think dead already..hopefully..

So to muslim..please give the reason..and for people like me let we find the reason..so that we know why we have to avoid a lot of wrong doings...Anyway for ladys..life is not about love..so before fall in love consider everything..at least make sure the guy have a job so that he have the money to buy condom..hahaha...

Here is one of the story when children don't understand the reason..just a story

In an orphan house there is an event where there are a lot of food for the children..it's conducted by one of the local church...

on a table there are apples..so the nun said to one of the children

"takes only one..remember the god is watching..."

then the child take one apple and go to the other table that serve cookies and said to her friends..

"takes as much as you can because the god is watching the apples right now..."

hahaha .. get what I mean..